Leaving it at home

As a nurse we are taught to leave our personal problems at home, that our problems when we are working have no significance. I have learned the hard way lately how important and at the same time wrong that is. I have had some personal problems that have seeped into my work life, which for me is unacceptable, I should be here for my patients all personal problems aside. That said, some of my colleagues noticed I was just not myself and in a very kind way confronted me with it. I didn't realise how much I needed to talk to someone and I (unfortunately for them) poured my heart out. I felt very appreciative and proud to be working with people who care not only about their patients but each other. So I have learned that although personal problems in patient care are unacceptable, nurses will and need to help each other out when it becomes too much. I know I will always carry that throughout my career and help the next person.